The following is a very thinly veiled feminist rant.
I don’t like a lot of things. On more than one occasion I have been compared to the old men on the muppets that sit on the balcony and bitch about how awful the show is. I understand 100% when people disagree with me; I have some pretty controversial opinions and I am not afraid to make completely unsupported declarations. Here is a very brief list of examples:
- No one on Sex and the City deserved love except for Stanford because they were all bad people.
- No one like Pringles and anyone that says otherwise is only saying it for attention.
- The DIxie Chicks version of Landslide is the best version of that song.
- The two most recent Star Trek movies are the worst movies in history because the entire cast is just doing really bad impressions of the actors in the original series.
While these opinions usually don’t get me a lot of fans, they rarely lead to any real debate. The same cannot be said about when I admit that I don’t think that Scarlett Johansson is a good actress. After expressing this opinion I am almost always accused (by dudes) of being jealous. I’ve been called a lot worse in my lifetime but here, that accusation is wholly without merit. Moreover, it is irritating because the implication is that I am incapable of suppressing the green eyed monster long enough to develop an informed opinion.
So, why is it that I can’t I dislike Scarlett Johansson without being jealous? The worst thing I have ever said about her is that her only role involves staring at the camera with pursed lips. I have said much worse things about male celebrities, for example, Clint Eastwood ( satchel of gumbo) and Joaquin Phoenix (real life Beetlejuice). No one ever runs to their defense. But SOMEHOW implying that Scarlett Johansson isn’t stellar is akin to calling a baby a smashed bag of assholes. People (usually men) seem to think that it is impossible for me to have a negative opinion about an attractive woman without it coming out of my own insecurity. Why can’t I just admit that a really hot woman is talented? Short answer: I can.
My two favorite famous ladies are Beyonce and Jennifer Lawrence. Both have millions more in the bank than I do. Both are objectively more attractive than most people. Both are universally beloved, and I acknowledge that these two ladies are deserving of all the praise they get. I am not jealous; I admire them greatly and respect what they have contributed to the world and to me personally ( even that one time Beyonce purposely tried to get me to fail torts by dropping that secret album).
The longer answer is that my feelings and opinions are perfectly valid but accusing someone of being jealous is a really good way to undercut their opinions. Furthermore, it’s a good way of shutting down someone’s opinions without having to defend your own. If you say you hate Beyonce I would be happy to argue for hours on end about how talented she is, how she is a triple threat, and how she makes music that just genuinely makes people happy. I would love to spend my day scrolling through her catalogue until I find a song that you at least kinda like. I probably won’t waste a lot of my time implying that you have some personal failing that prevents you from appreciating her holiness.
SO yeah, I don’t think ScarJo is a good actress. That is my opinion and a lot of people probably don’t agree with me. I based that opinion on the movies that I have seen her in and my PERSONAL opinion that her performances in said movies are often the low point. I also don’t love that she plays the exact same role in every movie. So that is why I don’t particularly care for the girl. She’s gorgeous and rich and those are beautiful things but she bugs the hell out of me. No, that doesn’t make me jealous or petty. I’m just a lady-girl with lots of opinions and that’s okay. Believe me, it’s okay (trust me).
BONUS: Here’s this song